The Evil of Bullying
Bullying is a curse, not a gift. Every now and then, bullying has been one of the many reasons as to why innocent kids and teenagers would want to hurt themselves at the end of the day. Bullying can happen anywhere and everywhere. It could happen in school, at a friend’s house, at an after school program or even at home. It could even occur online where now a days, teenagers spent their time and energy. Bullying is somewhat like cancer. No matter how hard we try and fight to protect our loved ones from this dangerous, contagious disease, it will always find a way to get to us on where it will hurt us the most. Bullying has no boundaries and it has taken the happiness that took its victims hard work to find in their lives. Unfortunately, it could be said that bullying is one of the many roots that leads innocent victims that are trying to contribute to our society in becoming dangerous criminals that will try to destroy that very society that they once sought to be a part of. Up to this day, bullying has destroyed the very core of a person’s being. It doesn’t matter if it’s the person that’s doing the bullying or the person that’s getting bullied. They are both hurting because of bullying. In the past, bullying has conquered the lives of many innocent victims. Sadly, it is still happening in today’s society. The victims would either kill themselves as a result of them being unable to take it longer or that their family aren’t giving them the proper the support that they needed to get out of that situation in one piece. Also, there were some victims that have killed those that were making their lives into a living nightmare. These are just one out of many scenarios of how bullying overpowered its victims. However, don’t worry because for every problem, there is a solution.
Physical bullying is using “one’s body and physical bodily acts to exert power over peers. Punching, kicking and other physical attacks are all types of physical bullying” (https://antibullyingsoftware.com/what-is-the-definition-of-physical-bullying/). Fortunately enough, physical bullying is way easier and a lot more noticeable to spot since it is damage being dealt to the victim’s physical body. It’s a lot more noticeable than verbal bullying. Well, the best way to prevent physical bullying is by having adults teaching their fellow young students, especially the ones in elementary and middle school on the differences between play fighting and bullying. According to “Face Bullying With Confidence: 8 Kidower Skills We Can Use Right Away”, it states that “To practice, show young people the difference between being passive, aggressive, and assertive in body language, tone of voice and choice of words” (https://www.kidpower.org/library/article/prevent-bullying/?gclid=CjwKCAjw8LTmBRBCEiwAbhh-6B-AIRsA1x8aF4-q5gkkXD_Sd8BRqHrhfffWgm4rLL8_b7mvWhIglRoCNtQQAvD_BwE). This shows that physical bullying alone can be prevented by one’s body language. The way how one portrays themselves in their own setting and environment is how that said individual will be able to protect themselves from physical bullying.
Verbal bullying or verbal abuse is when someone forcefully criticizes, insults, or denounces someone else. Characterized by underlying anger and hostility, it is a destructive form of communication intended to harm the self-concept of the other person and produce negative emotions. Verbal bullying is also known for being the most effective method for destroying its victim’s self esteem. “verbal bullying is more insidious and over long periods of time works to destroy a child’s self image and self esteem”(https://antibullyingsoftware.com/what-is-the-definition-of-verbal-bullying/). This demonstrates that verbal bullying is really one of the best ways to crack down an innocent child’s self esteem and overall confidence in what they can do in their daily lives. Verbal bullying is more of a threat to its victims than physical bullying to the point that it can “lead to depression, anxiety and other problems. In extreme cases, several well noted instances of teen suicide have been linked to prolonged verbal bullying of a classmate or peer” (https://antibullyingsoftware.com/what-is-the-definition-of-verbal-bullying/). Like I have previously said before, bullying, well to be more specific, verbal bullying is like cancer since it has a long lasting effect on deteriorating their victim’s health, whether it be their physical or mental health. Fortunately, there’s such a way to prevent verbal bullying from having a negative impact on other innocent kids lives. The parents would have to be carefully of their kids behavior to see if anything has changed and the same includes with their daily routines and activities. In addition, talk to head officials of the school that your child goes to see if there is anything happening to he or she and ask the head officials questions regarding it.
“Tell school administrators: It’s important school administrators are made aware of the situation so they can intervene and monitor the situation. Follow-up with your child and the school regularly to ensure the situation is dealt with.
- Resist suggestions to simply ignore the bully: Ignoring the bully doesn’t work. It’s the responsibility of the student exhibiting bullying behaviors not to bully. The victim should not have to hide or endure the harassment.
- Have your child participate in social activities (extracurricular activities, community groups and other supportive environments): It is important the victim not be bullied into isolation. Engaging in social activities and having close friends can help a child immensely – both in helping them develop prosocial behaviours and in offering some level of protection against the development of depression, anxiety, etc.” (https://antibullyingsoftware.com/what-is-the-definition-of-verbal-bullying/).
In other words, the parents will need to have a high level of awareness to ensure their child’s safety from verbal bullying. Therefore, for every problem, there’s always a solution.
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